Decisions
Jeremy: Parents have a lot of decisions to make when they separate or divorce.
- Will you live with one parent or both parents?
- When will you get to see each parent?
- How often?
- And for how long?
There are lots of different ways to arrange how you will spend time with your parents.
When parents decide who the kids will live with and when each parent will see the kids, this is called custody and access.
Parents also need to make decisions about money. Sometimes, one parent has to give the other parent money to help pay for the things you need. This is called child support.The money one parent has to pay the other parent to help pay for the things you need
Your parents also have to decide how they will share all the things they own together. This is called property divisionWhen people who separate split up the things they own.
For example:
- If they own a house, who will get to keep it?
- Who will keep the furniture, car, TV, computer, pictures, dishes, and other things?
- How will they divide their money, and any bills that need to be paid?
When parents stop living together, each parent may have a lawyerA person who knows a lot about the law. Lawyers know a lot about the law. They can help your parents understand the laws so they can do what is best for you.
They might go to a mediatorA person who does mediation, and helps people agree about things for help, or they might go to court and have a judge make the decisions for them.