Finances also change with separation and divorce. It is more expensive to run two households than one. This simple fact means that, in most cases, divorce and separation result in at least a temporary drop in disposable income. Children need to know that there may be less money for buying new things or eating out. It doesn’t need to mean less fun though. Try starting some new traditions, like a Friday night picnic instead of Friday night pizza.

Another change you may need to discuss with your children is the increased household responsibility they may face. Prior to the divorce or separation, two adults shared the household chores. Explain to your children that with only one adult in the home, you will be asking them to pitch in and help more often.

Relationships with extended family may change, temporarily or for a long time. It is natural that some family members will take sides. If there are relatives who can remain focused on the well-being of the children, your children will benefit from seeing them as often as possible.